Everything you need to know to elevate your bedroom performance to new heights.
‘Stack Dating’ is the ruthlessly efficient new way men are looking for love
WHEN JOE, 33, first downloaded Tinder at age 21, he’d only been with a few women and wasn't exactly experienced with dating. But within hours of setting up his profile, he matched with someone who lived 15 minutes away. They met for drinks, hit it off, and hooked up....
You might be a ‘Performative Male’ – here’s how to spot the signs
Psychologists explain why men fake depth – and how to be genuine instead
The reality of being a 28-year-old virgin: one man on shame, loneliness and acceptance
Low self-esteem stopped Nick, 28, from popping his cherry at the same time as the rest of his peer group. As the years have passed, the pressure that comes with the label ‘virgin’ has only intensified
Four things every man needs to know about the clitoris
HAVE YOU EVER felt confused or lacking the confidence in knowing what actually feels good for a woman? If so, you are not alone. In fact, it’s the most common conversation I have with hetero men in the therapy room, whether they are single or in a relationship. Sex ed...
Could impaired fertility signal a larger health issue?
AS FERTILITY SPECIALISTS, we’ve been analysing sperm – or, more correctly, semen – for decades. However, a growing body of research suggests it has far wider implications than fertility and could provide a valuable snapshot of a man’s overall health. Mounting evidence...
Men, don’t eat too many carrots – why your sex life may depend on it
WHILE CARROTS HAVE long been hailed by scientists as vegetable royalty thanks to their rich vitamin, mineral and antioxidant content, some researchers now think there could be a link between carotene – which the superfood is rich in – and erectile dysfunction. What...
The ultimate guide to dating older women
DATING OLDER WOMEN as a man in this strange and beautiful world can be a truly life-changing experience. But, it’s no secret that age-gap relationships come with ample misconceptions and stigma—and when we’re talking about an older female partner with a...
NZ’s top porn star on what you’re doing wrong in the bedroom
A Kiwi OnlyFans star believes 'alpha male' pressure to perform is hurting men in the bedroom. Here's her tips to stress-free sex
‘Don’t go to bed angry’ is actually bad relationship advice
The idea that we should never go to bed angry sounds great – but it can create deeper problems
A psychologist explains ‘pocketing’, the dating trend you need to be aware of
A new partner seems reluctant to showcase you to their friends? There may be a reason you're being kept under wraps
What is sex in 2025?
The definition of what constitutes sex is broadening. Here’s what it means for you
How to make blowjobs more enjoyable for the woman in your life, according to sex experts
Plus, the #1 reason women actually love giving head.
The health condition you need to take into your own hands
Testicular cancer can be successfully treated if it's caught early. Here's how to check yourself to ensure your boys stay healthy
“I Can Make Almost Any Woman Squirt. Here’s Exactly How I Do It”
A self-proclaimed expert takes us through a step-by-step guide on how to make sure your partner will squirt during sex
8 Women Who’ve Tried Anal Sex Describe What It’s Actually Like
Anal sex can be good, or seriously cringe-worthy. Here's what eight outspoken women say anal actually feels like
Love at first sight is a total myth
Sorry to the true romantics out there, but you need more than instant attraction to build a real relationship
The lowdown on low libido in men
Struggling to rise to the occasion in the bedroom? Low libido affects many men. Discover the causes and learn how to boost your sex drive
How to beat performance anxiety in the bedroom
If you’re getting in your head about your sexual performance, these strategies can help restore your confidence
The foreskin problem that’s more common than you think
A tight foreskin can be a serious health problem. Discover everything you need to know about phimosis to keep your private parts healthy