SIGMUND FREUD, IN his ‘Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality’, describes libido as the sexual equivalent of hunger. We get hungry so that we eat to ensure our personal survival, and we have a libido so that we reproduce for the survival of our species. That’s why...
For the most part, you probably think that “penis” and “changing colour” are two terms that should never be in the same sentence. But in some contexts, it’s totally normal for your penis to change colour — like, for instance, when you’re aroused, explains Dr. S. Adam...
We tend to associate sex toys with masturbation, as though you only really need 'em as backup when a real-life partner isn't available. Don't get us wrong: a little solo sesh with a cock ring (or a dildo, butt plug, cock vibrator, or prostate massager...) can be fun....
We know what you’re probably thinking: if one more person tells you to be “mindful,” you’re going to lose your goddamn mind. How is being mindful of the fact that you’re stressed going to help you actually be less stressed? Especially when you're trying to have a...
Foreplay isn’t optional. It’s not something that you can half-ass for two minutes before rushing into P-in-V or P-in-B sex. Instead, it’s something you should take your time with to get both your partner and yourself in the mood. Honestly, the term “foreplay” is a...
“One thing to keep in mind about your partners dildos, they have to be longer than normal. There has to be a handle. So they need to be longer than needed.” – @ 75DeepBlue “So a dildo and an actual penis feel different. In my opinion, you...
If you’re gearing up to have anal sex for the first time, you’ve probably got some questions. Chief among them: Is she going to poop during the act? Ready for it?...Yep, it might happen. But, before you freak out, rest assured that there are things you can do make...
Dear Sexually Inexperienced, Before I can provide you with any tips whatsoever, I need to make one thing crystal clear: You’re going to have to tell her you’re a virgin. The first time I attempted to lose my virginity (not a great sign that it was an attempt), I...
If you thought Aunt Flo would be enough to stop women from doing the deed, think again. A new survey has found that nearly one fifth of all women are having sex while on their period. According to research conducted by period tracking phone app, Clue and the...
