Everything you need to know to elevate your bedroom performance to new heights.
I had sex every day for 100 days – here’s what happened
“YOU WANT US to do what!?” asked my wife, Lily. “Have sex every day for 100 consecutive days?” I tried to sound persuasive and matter-of-fact, but it came out as a winced question. “And then you want to write about it for our family and friends to read?” A reasonable...
How to ask out a friend – without making it weird
Having your very own “friends-to-lovers” arc isn’t as easy as the movies make it look
NZ’s top porn star on what you’re doing wrong in the bedroom
A Kiwi OnlyFans star believes ‘alpha male’ pressure to perform is hurting men in the bedroom. Here’s her tips to stress-free sex
The lowdown on low libido in men
SIGMUND FREUD, IN his ‘Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality’, describes libido as the sexual equivalent of hunger. We get hungry so that we eat to ensure our personal survival, and we have a libido so that we reproduce for the survival of our species. That’s why...
How to beat performance anxiety in the bedroom
EVER FELT YOUR confidence slip away just when it matters most? Performance anxiety in the bedroom is more common than you thin – and it can happen to anyone. You might worry about lasting longer, keeping an erection, or whether you’re meeting your partner’s...
The foreskin problem that’s more common than you think
SOMETIMES IT CAN be confusing figuring out what’s normal anatomy and what are issues that might need medical attention. But if you have a foreskin and you can’t pull it back over the head of your penis you might be dealing with phimosis, and that falls into the latter...
Osher Günsberg on how to redirect distracting sexual energy
BEFORE KURT RUSSELL attempted an Escape from New York, before he battled The Thing, he starred in the underrated comedy Used Cars. Early in the movie, he is given some of the greatest wisdom a young man could hope to hear: “Don’t let the little head do the thinking...
A List of 30 sexual kinks and fetishes we know you’re curious about
With a mind-blowing selection to choose from, take a deep dive into the weird and wonderful list of kinks and fetishes.
How to work out for a longer, better sex life
Looking for longevity in the bedroom? Factor these things into your training to take your sex life to new heights.
The beginner’s guide to anal sex
Anal sex is becoming increasingly popular as we as a society explore new paths of pleasure. Here’s what you need to know before you give it a go.
Wanna Have Multiple Orgasms? Try These Tips and Techniques.
Experts put forward the newest batch of tricks and secrets to implement into your sex life, all it takes is a little practice.
A Sleep Divorce Could Save Your Relationship
Taking the odd nightly snooze in another bed might just be the new way to find better harmony with your partner
The 8 best sex toys for men
Sometimes all a dish needs is a little extra spice. These toys will add exactly that.
110 sexting examples to send your partner right now
Warning! Some of these are NSFW. 😈
New data reveals the top 10 sexy songs of 2023
Talk about ideal mood-setting music. These songs are the most commonly selected backing tracks for the bedroom.
What women want in a partner changes with age
Study shows kindness holds consistent appeal, while confidence becomes more desirable with age.
The sexual position ‘scientifically proven’ to make women climax the most
Dr Rena Malik breaks down the research behind the best position to help your partner reach orgasm every time.
Yes, Getting Ghosted Sucks. Science Explains Why
Digital Disappearances Are Becoming Ever More Common And For Those Who Need Closure They Can Be Particularly Haunting
How A Little Extra Gratitude Could Save Your Relationship
Tend to get bogged down in your own issues? Take a break from self-absorption
and notice what your partner is doing to keep your boat afloat.