Everything you need to know to elevate your bedroom performance to new heights.
How to ask out a friend – without making it weird
THE FRIENDS TO lovers trope is a feel-good story everyone from hopeless romantics to love skeptics can get behind (you can't tell us your heart strings weren't at least a little tugged at the end of When Harry Met Sally). And thanks to the current boom in romance...
NZ’s top porn star on what you’re doing wrong in the bedroom
A Kiwi OnlyFans star believes ‘alpha male’ pressure to perform is hurting men in the bedroom. Here’s her tips to stress-free sex
‘Don’t go to bed angry’ is actually bad relationship advice
The idea that we should never go to bed angry sounds great – but it can create deeper problems
A psychologist explains ‘pocketing’, the dating trend you need to be aware of
DATING IN THE modern world can be hard enough without having to worry about trends that might blindside your attempts to find ‘the one’. You’ve heard of Ghosting, and maybe even experienced Throning, but one trend that has been happening right under our noses is...
What is sex in 2025?
IT’S POSSIBLE YOU’RE having more sex than you thought. Huh? Surely you know how much sex you’re having, right?! The reason for the uptick is because the definition of what constitutes sexual intercourse is er, rubbery. And as a society, it appears the meaning of sex...
The health condition you need to take into your own hands
THIS YEAR, AROUND 1,000 Australian men will be diagnosed with testicular cancer, and about 30 will die from the disease. That’s not a lot of people, compared to prostate cancer (more than 24,000 diagnoses and 3,500 deaths) or breast cancer (around 21,000 diagnoses and...
“I Can Make Almost Any Woman Squirt. Here’s Exactly How I Do It”
THE FIRST TIME I saw squirting, I didn't really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid – that was supposedly not pee – during sex acts. So rare was...
8 Women Who’ve Tried Anal Sex Describe What It’s Actually Like
Anal sex can be good, or seriously cringe-worthy. Here's what eight outspoken women say anal actually feels like
Love at first sight is a total myth
Sorry to the true romantics out there, but you need more than instant attraction to build a real relationship
The lowdown on low libido in men
Struggling to rise to the occasion in the bedroom? Low libido affects many men. Discover the causes and learn how to boost your sex drive
How to beat performance anxiety in the bedroom
If you’re getting in your head about your sexual performance, these strategies can help restore your confidence
The foreskin problem that’s more common than you think
A tight foreskin can be a serious health problem. Discover everything you need to know about phimosis to keep your private parts healthy
Osher Günsberg on how to redirect distracting sexual energy
We all have urges, it’s what you do with them that counts
Time, trust, and true matches: SEI Club speaks about the modern dating lives of elite men
Exploring the evolving relationship dynamics, values, and challenges faced by high-achieving men in today’s dating landscape, as shared by SEI Club
Do you really need to boost your testosterone levels?
Worried your T levels might be dipping? Don’t know what’s considered normal? Use this guide to get a better handle on your most important hormone
50 of the best safe words to use during sex
Originating in the BDSM community, where sex involves extreme forms of dominance, safe words are used to stop play immediately. Here are 50 of the best safe words to use
6 ways your diet is destroying your sex life
Plus, exactly what you can do to get your performance up to par
Pornhub reveals the 10 most popular porn categories of the last 10 years
Pornhub has shared the most-viewed porn categories over the last decade. Did your favourite make the list?
How the five-second rule could save your relationship
Study finds five-second break could defuse arguments and avoid full-scale rows