Spice Up Your Sex Life By Introducing These ASMR Turn Ons - Men's Health Magazine Australia

Spice Up Your Sex Life By Introducing These ASMR Turn Ons

From whispering to water.

With ASMR day this weekend, it has us thinking about what different sounds can get us turned on in the bedroom. And turns out a bunch of other people are thinking the same thing: around 3,320 Google searches are made every single month for ‘ASMR sex sounds’.

So what exactly are people loving to listen to during a night of passion?

From whispering to water, adult sex toy company, Mega Pleasure, have looked into the best ASMR sounds to listen to during sex to turn on both you and your partner, as well as the average monthly search volume for thes sexy sounds. 

Check it out below.


To get you and your partner in the mood for a night of steamy sex, whispering into their ear is bound to give them goosebumps and leave them breathless. With a total of 2,300 monthly Google searches from those loving the same thing, put your mouth close to their ear and gently whisper, telling them what you want to do to them and making dirty talk sexier than ever before. By keeping your volume low, the intimacy of the experience is maximised and is proven to intensity the moment, making your words just as powerful as your actions.


Being one of the biggest turn ons in the bedroom, moaning can really ramp up your night of passion and moaning ASMR currently has an average Google search volume of 1,480. Allowing you and your partner to communicate without using words, moaning will show whether your partner is enjoying a particular position or act so you can provide each other with maximum pleasure. The sound of moaning during sex is a stimulus in itself, not only providing verbal cues, but getting you going as you get a kick out of the pleasure of a partner. 


Many of us love to introduce a little scratching under the sheets, displaying our passion and intensifying the skin on skin contact. Although there is definitely such a thing as too much scratching, a gentle scratch on the back or shoulders can be a real turn on which is just as effective when it comes to ASMR. With 460 Google searches a month, replicating the sound of a light scratching against a duvet or the skin can be a subtle way to drive your partner crazy for a night to remember.

Water droplets

The sound of running water is known to be a great relaxation technique, with 470 Google searches, helping us unwind and connect with nature to destress from the hecticness of everyday life. To unwind and release your stress in a sexier way, introduce the sound of water into sex for a new expeirnece that can take your passion up a notch. Moving from the bedroom to the shower or bath is a great place to start, switching up your surroundings and enjoying the sounds around you.

Squelching and sucking 

Although this may not sound like the sexiest of sounds, in the heat of the moment it is shown to be a huge mood booster. Once you get in the midst of the passion, the sound of intense kissing on either the mouth or other body parts is a great way to turn your partner on even further. Especially in quiet surroundings, the intensified sounds can really help the brain focus on the moment so you can maximise pleasure, being searched for only around 220 times a month.


The sensation of having a partner slowly and gently run their hands across our skin is a sensual experience that is bound to drive our body crazy. By stimulating the different areas and heightening the feeling of touch, introducing tickling into foreplay is a great way to awaken those sensitive spots. With 100 monthly Google searches, it is apparent that the sound of tickling is equally as much of a turn on, adding to the intimacy. 

Role Playing

Introducing role play into the bedroom is a popular way to spice up your sex life, immersing yourself into a fantasy to fulfil your desires. For many, using a different voice to maximise the role play is a huge turn on, making the moment feel more authentic and allowing ourselves to fully get lost in the storyline. An average of 260 monthly searches are made into role play ASMRso let your imagination run wild and experiment with different scenarios.


Tapping ASMR has around 840 monthly searches, being one of the more popular sounds for those ASMR fans. If you focus on the subtle sound of tapping, you may notice a tingling sensation travel down your body which awakens your senses and can definitely be incorporated into the bedroom during a night of steamy sex.


When done right, a gentle blow can drive your partner crazy, creating a strong connection between the two of you as you focus on the subtle actionsthat bring you together. A light blow into the ear is a firm favourite, tickling the nerves within the ear which creates a unique sensation that can send chills throughout the body. As well as the feel, the calming sound of a blow can be considered incredibly seductive under the sheets, being searched 270 times a month on average.

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