Kissing someone can be the most beautiful feeling. But as things start to get hot and heavy, it’s a little difficult to know what to do with your hands. You seem to know exactly where you want to be touched but when it comes to the woman you don’t want to assume anything. You want to make sure your partner has a good time without making them feel like you’re too awkward to deal with your own hands. We get it guys.
The struggle is very real. Which is exactly why we reached out to Delhi-based Sexologist, Dr Madhusudan to tell you about the 7 places women want to be touched while kissing. Treat this like your handbook and you’ll never go wrong!
1. Hold Her Hands
Fingers are the lesser-known erogenous zones on a woman’s body. Hold her hands, play with her fingers, use her hands as much as you can. Don’t mistake holding hands with something that can’t be sexy. If you pay close attention to how she’s holding your hand or how tightly she’s holding it, you’ll know which kissing move she enjoys the most.
2. Hold Her Waist
It’s a tried and tested classic move all romantic films vouch for. There’s something not-so-sexual yet intimate about being held by the waist, women really like it. Especially when you’re just going for a passionate makeout session, holding her by the waist is a great way to get started.
3. Go For The Butt
This one can be a little tricky. If you’re uncertain whether she’ll like it or not, then you should wait till you know her better. If you’re with your girlfriend and the kiss isn’t particularly sexual, grabbing her butt will definitely turn up the heat. But before you do anything, please make sure you both are on the same page. Consent is everything.
4. Hold Her Face
It doesn’t have to be as mechanical as it sounds. According to Dr Madhusudan, holding a woman’s face while kissing makes the situation a lot more romantic. Add intimacy to the kiss by gently holding her face and pulling it towards you. Feel free to move your hands around and caress her earlobes, neck and cheeks. It can be a turn on for them.
5. Caress Her Breasts
This might seem like the wrong thing to do if you’re getting intimate with this woman for the first time, but it can instantly make the kiss so much sexier. But then again, it all comes down to knowing whether she’ll be okay with it. If it makes your partner uncomfortable, it’s best to avoid this move.
We already told you that a woman’s inner thighs are one of the pleasure spots that never fail to excite her. Since the thighs are so close to the vagina, gently stroking them will set the mood right for some great foreplay. It’s a great way to move beyond her upper body and explore her legs a little.
7. Run Your Fingers Through Her Hair
According to Dr Madhusudan, this is a move you can never go wrong with. Whether you’re kissing her for the first time and not sure what to do with your hands or whether you’re with your longtime girlfriend, this move always works! To take the sexiness up a notch, you can start running your fingers through her hair and then pull it. Only do this if you know your partner will be comfortable with it or if you’ve had a conversation about the same.