You bang a jar on a counter to help open it up. But a woman is not a jar, warns Emily Morse, a doctor of human sexuality and host of the popular sex podcast Sex with Emily. Her point: You can’t just bang your partner harder to help her achieve a speedier orgasm.
“Sometimes it doesn’t matter how hard you’re thrusting or how long you’ve been going at it, a woman’s pleasure is not an exact science,” says Morse. Instead, showing how much you yearn for her might be your key to the elusive female orgasm. “For a woman to open up and experience sexual pleasure, she needs to feeldesired by you.”
Unfortunately, sex alone is not enough to make her feel desired. If you seem in a hurry to get off – or to get her off – that will only slow things down. So how do you speed things along without slowing down her engine? Follow these 4 hot tips.
