How Do Women Actually Feel About Premature Ejaculation? | Men's Health Magazine Australia

10 Women Share How They Actually Feel About Premature Ejaculation

“It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. I actually enjoy when that happens. What is frustrating though is when they don’t finish me off afterwards. Gotta return the favour.” – @feline-anus “Honesty, I feel flattered! I figure I must be a super awesome sexy. I always tell my SO that orgasms are a good thing, and […]

“It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. I actually enjoy when that happens. What is frustrating though is when they don’t finish me off afterwards. Gotta return the favour.” – @feline-anus

“Honesty, I feel flattered! I figure I must be a super awesome sexy. I always tell my SO that orgasms are a good thing, and not to feel bad. If I’m wanting more, there are plenty of other options.” – @Iaintyourmama

“No, not at all. I’ve had it happen with multiple guys and I’ve really never cared. Do offer to give her oral/handsy stuff afterwards though!” -@Mittenflap

“It really depends on what happens contextually around it.

Are you one of those dudes who just rolls over and goes to sleep post-orgasm without being concerned about my sexual satisfaction? Then yes, it is a deal breaker. (This may seem obvious, but it’s incredible how many dudes are only concerned with a woman’s orgasm if it happens before their own)

If you’re one of the dudes who will continue to do things for his partner until she’s satisfied, then no. Not a deal breaker for me. I would be able to manage that.” – @bccdeff

“I say girls should push through. My BF was like that for the first few months, but a year and a half later his stamina is much better. For some guys, I think it’s being with a new person, adding in however long they didn’t have sex before the relationship too.” – @homewardbound25

“I really, really don’t care. I have never sat there and timed how long it took. Plus, its sexy if we’re having a quickie and he comes fast. I like knowing he was turned on before we started anything. If we take more time, usually we’ve had enough foreplay that I’m satisfied before sex even starts, and I’m game for however long or short it goes. And if for some reason I’m not satisfied before sex starts and he finishes quickly, I can take care of myself if I want it bad enough, or I just let it go and enjoy snuggling. Its just not a big deal to me at all.” -@rubberduck05

“Flattered. This almost never happens with my fiance’ but usually when I get back from a business trip he never lasts long (neither do I actually) and it’s super hot. If it was all the time I’d ask him to go down on me or finger me until I came then I’d have sex so I don’t think it would be a big issue.” – @Alect0

Penises aren’t what get me off anyway, so as long as he’s willing to do other things (either before or after or both) I only see it as a bonus. The quicker it goes, the less sore I get, the more often we can do it, everybody’s happy!” -@betsybraddock

“It’s fine and not a big deal. I think most women who sleep with men realise pretty quickly that penises don’t work on command, and that’s ok. So, try not to curl into a ball of shame or anything (because it’s really nothing to be ashamed of), shake it off, and make sure your partner has a good time and feels satisfied.” – @concise_dictionary

“Far from a dealbreaker. It makes me feel sexy, wanted. Now, I prefer when endurance is built, but it’s definitely not the end of the world if he prematurely comes. It’s definitely not as bad as when we go at it for 15-20 minutes and then he goes soft or can’t come… that’s certainly a worse feeling.” -@arwynn

By Mens Health Staff

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